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Tuesday, August 24, 2010

Confessions . . Fear . . Time . .

To be HONEST.
I guess Confession is something that is hard to do but yet have to do. To make a Confession it takes a lot of bravery and courage. I guess its Magic would be here: At First you'll feel scared yet You'll have that sudden courage to Confess and after that you'll feel all relaxed. 
There are many things to confess . . It may be your Love towards someone, your Guilt after doing a bad deeds, your opinion of agreement or disagreement,your plans and intentions, your feelings on how important that person is to you etc. It may also be your Deepest Darkest Secret. When there is a Confession to make you'll feel like you're actually carrying a burden that needs to be let down, a knot that is all tied up so tight thats needs to be untangled,or like a python straggling you so tightly that you need to get yourself out of its grip. Later you'll feel fear whether you could/ should deal with it and after you confessed you'll actually feel that you're as light as a cloud. Broke free from the chains that were tying you down. 

To be AFRAID.
In my opinion of fear, all i could only say i that "Alot of us are fearful for the things unknown to us.". We are afraid of things that we aren't familiar with as we do not know what it may do or how it may end. We might even be scared of things that we couldnt see or do not understand, things that we have not overcome before. In addition, we use things to hide away from our fears but its just the wrong way of handling the problem. The only way to really solve it would be overcoming your fears and get rid of it. Fear is not a good thing, something we should get rid of. Although its hard to overcome Fear, but we should try to at least face it and try to understand the good parts of it that makes it not so scary anymore. No harm trying good things as if we dont even try, how can we know the conclusion? 

To CHERISH.
Time is ticking every second and it wouldn't have mercy to even stop a second, So CHERISH every second of your life. Time flies and thats true, Look back in life and think of what've you done. We lived for so long yet we just did so little things. Cherish every moment, no matter with your family, your lover , your friends. Cherish Everything and be grateful for it. Don't waste time as you could not get it back like money. Time is a very powerful thing. It can make you rush, relaxed. happy ,sad etc. Time helps us to get over things too. For example, Habits, heartaches, problems and more. No matter what we've overcome, time will go by and make everything better. Be Grateful for the past ,Cherish the present and Look forward for tomorrow. You can loose a hundred dollars and get it back but you couldnt loose an hour and get it back.


Bravery and Courage is the key. Be Brave and get the courage to make CONFESSIONS of all things and overcome FEARs, else you'll just be wasting your TIME being afraid of the unknown.


CONFESS everything even your FEAR and deal with it no matter how hard it may be as all things will always be better in TIME. .










Monday, August 23, 2010

你不知道的事 . .

大家都会有属于自己心中的真正秘密,而有时这秘密是该让对方知道却因为自己的想法而收起来给自己受。
有时这么做会让人在面对这秘密时不知所措,甚至可以让一个人失去他的所有。
这样好受吗?这样值得吗? 答案只能说"各有各的想法"。
有些人也许会一直抱着一个忍耐的心,有些会变得很反贱,或他们可能也会忍耐同时反贱。
或许只有尝试过这滋味的人才会明白。

有些人因为太爱对方就会一直忍耐对方的所作所为。
一句我爱你可能可以对这些人来说很重要。
当他们对你说我爱你时,他们也许在对你说“我想与你共度每一天直到永远”。
也许你不相信永远的真正存在所以他们才会不坦白说出来。
也或许他们都一直等待着你主动。
这也是其中的一个忍耐方法,一个无法表达出来的心声仿佛暗恋的感觉一样。
他们的秘密想法也许是"我会一直等待,事情一定会雨过天晴。"


有些人不是不爱对方却想变得反贱。
他们知道那段恋情已维持不下去就先自己离开。
当他们决定已要这么做时,他们会把爱对方的心完全收了起来。
他们不会再理对方,从伤人的话直到背叛,就算自己的行动有多么的伤害对方都做得出来。
他们是因为会害怕离开时的伤所以在离开前时把感情弄得残酷让大家容易一刀两断。


而给那些又忍耐又反贱的人呢?
他们也就是太爱对方却知道自己没能给爱人真正的幸福快乐所以很自然的想到放手让他自由。
他们会在决定狠下手段时大哭一夜,再很有决心的行动计划。
有些手段可以是他手下留情的,有些却可以毫不留情一针见血地下手,
可是其实,他们的心理一点也不爽反而是承受着比对方的痛分分钟超越十倍。
当他们看到你哭,他们也许会对你说"至少你还哭得出来"。
这是因为你不知道当他们还未对你下那些伤人的手段时,他们的心已在倾盆大雨着。
你永远不知道他们看到自己心爱的人不开心时,心其实有多么的痛。
他们必须反贱地背叛自己爱对方的心伤害对方,却到最后要承受最多的伤痛也就是他们。
明明抱着一个超爱你的心可是还要逼自己对对方说那句"我不爱你“只为了手放开让你找到自己的真正幸福快乐。


可能你会问,这样值得吗? 
他们的答案会带着一丝笑容而答你"值得。只要他开心就好了。"


除此之外,还有无数的秘密。
有些也可以是默默地爱着自己的追求者却不敢接受她,
只因为害怕,害怕已不会再像现在的开心状况。
有时人会问"可是不试着开始又怎么会知道呢?"
那就是他们自己的想法。


问题可能就在"就这样的失去了值得吗? 你放得下吗?”


不要以为自己什么都知道,因为其实多的是你不知道的事 . .